arma virumque cano (et alia)
There really are no words. If he does not become a prohibited person after this incident. ??? People have had their properties confiscated for less serious crimes. I'm thinking some definite jail time. Better to be a state prison. Endangering a minor. Mayhem. Menacing. Brandishing. Not very likely much hope of rehabilitating a person who has let himself degenerate to this extent. I guess a judge could force him to take antabuse every day for the rest of his life. Feel kinda sorry for his wife.